So, can I ask a serious question about 1st World problems
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So, can I ask a serious question about 1st World problems
So, you live in the US/Canada. At the apex of human civilization. Unlimited job opportunities, tech out the ass, multiple vehicles, TV's in every room, Clean water, Travel anywhere you desire, raise your kids decently, hell the list is almost endless. So, here's my question. Why does it seem everybody is always angry, frustrated, depressed, making life harder than it needs to be? Like getting to the apex causes more problems. Please discuss.
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Because it has to be perfect or it doesn't count.
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It's just BS. Live beyond 98% of humanity , your BMW gets cut off in traffic, and you go rage? Please continue the discussion.
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You do know there are people oot there who are happy with how their lives are, right?
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Early evidence points to the breakdown of marriage values where one inflicts pain on the other for Lolz.
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I think a major part of the problem was sung by Phil Collins back in the 80's. "Too many people causing too many problems". Population in WW2- 90 million. Today- 300 Million We are full up.
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Those same advantages allow for more free time and for rapid dispersal of information. An educational system that teaches to the lowest common denominator instead of requiring the best of students. Free time spent on social media where the information isn't subjected to critical thinking and is accepted as truth.
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If you were actually happy you wouldnt drown yourself in booze every night.WestTexasCrude wrote: ↑Mon Aug 12, 2019 12:00 amI'm perfectly happy with my life, daily , work. My point is there seems so much angst out there. Considering the luxury everybody enjoys, It's a major embarrassment.
FreakShowFanatic wrote: ↑Sun Nov 10, 2019 11:51 pm The one thing you know is that I always liked you and I'm impressed with you. You deserve the best.
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Re: So, can I ask a serious question about 1st World problems
Off the top of my head:
Some people are not happy unless theyre unhappy
A generation(s) that was handed everything unable to cope with real world stuff
Some people are not happy unless theyre unhappy
A generation(s) that was handed everything unable to cope with real world stuff
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Is this thread because you heard fox news say that all the shootings in your country are caused by video games, Hollywood violence, social media. breakdown of the family, and lack of a belief in god?WestTexasCrude wrote: ↑Mon Aug 12, 2019 12:09 amThere it is, It's not video games or Hollywood violence but social media.
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I got news for you champ, it ain't just millenials who are sometimes unhappy with how their lives are going. Old people like you get unhappy too.
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We're happy up here.
It's a shame you are so depressed. Sorry aboot your problems......
It's a shame you are so depressed. Sorry aboot your problems......
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Re: So, can I ask a serious question about 1st World problems
We aren't programmed to be content. It's not in our dna. We're programmed to struggle, to fight, to risk and occasionally succeed but more frequently fail. We're fish out of water and the train left the rails years ago. It's organized chaos on a global scale. Awareness breeds depression or denial, ignorance occasionally breeds bliss.
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Baring mental illness, happiness is a choice. It's how you look at life and recognizing what actually makes you happy versus providing a short term happiness high. The old quote that nobody said on their death bed they wished they'd worked more - I doubt anyone said I wished I'd bought a more expensive grill 30 years ago.
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A big key to this is gratitude, I think.beagleboy wrote: ↑Mon Aug 12, 2019 1:41 pm Baring mental illness, happiness is a choice. It's how you look at life and recognizing what actually makes you happy versus providing a short term happiness high. The old quote that nobody said on their death bed they wished they'd worked more - I doubt anyone said I wished I'd bought a more expensive grill 30 years ago.
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There are different types of happiness. Eudaimonic happiness is what you are talking about and the feeling of being blessed. A lot of people pursue hedonistic happiness but it only works for very short periods.
There are free online classes through major universities that go into this sort of thing. Some of the happiest people on earth who also live the longest are nuns and monks. Hedonistic happiness is easier to attain but basically impossible to sustain.
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Because you have time to worry. You have access to information about bad things going on, amplified by the media, and you can also see people living better than you. Everything on TV is about what you don't have, what you should want.WestTexasCrude wrote: ↑Sun Aug 11, 2019 11:24 pm So, you live in the US/Canada. At the apex of human civilization. Unlimited job opportunities, tech out the ass, multiple vehicles, TV's in every room, Clean water, Travel anywhere you desire, raise your kids decently, hell the list is almost endless. So, here's my question. Why does it seem everybody is always angry, frustrated, depressed, making life harder than it needs to be? Like getting to the apex causes more problems. Please discuss.
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I'd settle for contentment. Maybe losing the ego? No need to see oneself though others' eyes. For real, though, not just saying it.JCW wrote: ↑Mon Aug 12, 2019 2:29 pmA big key to this is gratitude, I think.beagleboy wrote: ↑Mon Aug 12, 2019 1:41 pm Baring mental illness, happiness is a choice. It's how you look at life and recognizing what actually makes you happy versus providing a short term happiness high. The old quote that nobody said on their death bed they wished they'd worked more - I doubt anyone said I wished I'd bought a more expensive grill 30 years ago.
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One part that makes gratitude hard to achieve sometimes is perspective and lack of insight. If you don't know how bad things can be, you dont ever truly appreciate that they're not that way for you. Just my observation as I age and struggle with instilling gratitude in my child's cushy life.beagleboy wrote: ↑Mon Aug 12, 2019 2:49 pmThere are different types of happiness. Eudaimonic happiness is what you are talking about and the feeling of being blessed. A lot of people pursue hedonistic happiness but it only works for very short periods.
There are free online classes through major universities that go into this sort of thing. Some of the happiest people on earth who also live the longest are nuns and monks. Hedonistic happiness is easier to attain but basically impossible to sustain.
FreakShowFanatic wrote: ↑Sun Nov 10, 2019 11:51 pm The one thing you know is that I always liked you and I'm impressed with you. You deserve the best.