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Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Mon Mar 23, 2020 12:26 pm
by DiverTexas
Sincerest condolences.
Sorry for your loss.

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Mon Mar 23, 2020 12:54 pm
by Whackov
Sorry for your loss.

I lost my father, my mother and a sister in less than a year’s period. I completely understand you not wanting to see the body. It is better to remember them for what they were instead of what they look like after death.

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Mon Mar 23, 2020 8:54 pm
by WestTexasCrude
Evvanrenea wrote: Mon Mar 23, 2020 6:49 am
nerd_alert wrote: Mon Mar 23, 2020 6:20 am
Evvanrenea wrote: Mon Mar 23, 2020 6:07 am I’m really sorry WTC that really is awful especially not being able to grieve properly with everything that’s going on. Just don’t let it beat you up too badly.
Great advice.
Not really advice. Not much advice to be given in that situation. Just letting him know someone cares.
Thanks Evvan, I appreciate it. I was a train wreck this weekend. It was not just the shock, but Friday and Saturday nights I maybe slept 8 hours combined. Slept almost 12 last night and feel tons better. Realize I need to get my shit together. Family coming here in 3 days and I have a Father to bury.

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Mon Mar 23, 2020 8:56 pm
by WestTexasCrude
DiverTexas wrote: Mon Mar 23, 2020 12:26 pm Sincerest condolences.
Sorry for your loss.
Thanks DT. That's special coming from you after the way I treated you the last week or 2. I apologize. Seems I've been "mad at the World" forever.

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2020 1:06 am
by WestTexasCrude
Whackov wrote: Mon Mar 23, 2020 12:54 pm Sorry for your loss.

I lost my father, my mother and a sister in less than a year’s period. I completely understand you not wanting to see the body. It is better to remember them for what they were instead of what they look like after death.
Thanks Whackov. Back in my 20's, was at my Grandmother's funeral (Mom side) and they just lifted the casket and showed her body. Tore me up. I just don't understand the point.It's my Sister, Brother and me. I was voted down about having an open casket for my Dad. I will just walk away when it happens. No problem. They say they want the grandkids and great grandkids to see him for the last time. I'm kinda guessing that group doesn't want to see a dead body and the parents are clueless. The whole open casket thing is a relic from before refrigeration when you paid a funeral director tons of money to make the body presentable (embalming) . It was like a show of his talent. Like PeteRoseHaircut said. That grave is not where my Dad is. It's in my memory.

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2020 1:29 pm
by Reservoir Dog
WestTexasCrude wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 1:06 am
Whackov wrote: Mon Mar 23, 2020 12:54 pm Sorry for your loss.

I lost my father, my mother and a sister in less than a year’s period. I completely understand you not wanting to see the body. It is better to remember them for what they were instead of what they look like after death.
Thanks Whackov. Back in my 20's, was at my Grandmother's funeral (Mom side) and they just lifted the casket and showed her body. Tore me up. I just don't understand the point.It's my Sister, Brother and me. I was voted down about having an open casket for my Dad. I will just walk away when it happens. No problem. They say they want the grandkids and great grandkids to see him for the last time. I'm kinda guessing that group doesn't want to see a dead body and the parents are clueless. The whole open casket thing is a relic from before refrigeration when you paid a funeral director tons of money to make the body presentable (embalming) . It was like a show of his talent. Like PeteRoseHaircut said. That grave is not where my Dad is. It's in my memory.
Attending an open casket funeral can be an important life lesson for children and grandchildren. It also helps people obtain a sense of closure.

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2020 3:46 pm
by DiverTexas
WestTexasCrude wrote: Mon Mar 23, 2020 8:56 pm
DiverTexas wrote: Mon Mar 23, 2020 12:26 pm Sincerest condolences.
Sorry for your loss.
Thanks DT. That's special coming from you after the way I treated you the last week or 2. I apologize. Seems I've been "mad at the World" forever.
No problem, completely understood.
I lost Mom a few years ago and then lost Dad 44 days later.
The anger is completely normal.
Just do your best to remember the good times and cherish the time you got to spend together.
Hang in there.

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:13 pm
by FreakShowFanatic
DiverTexas wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 3:46 pm
WestTexasCrude wrote: Mon Mar 23, 2020 8:56 pm
DiverTexas wrote: Mon Mar 23, 2020 12:26 pm Sincerest condolences.
Sorry for your loss.
Thanks DT. That's special coming from you after the way I treated you the last week or 2. I apologize. Seems I've been "mad at the World" forever.
No problem, completely understood.
I lost Mom a few years ago and then lost Dad 44 days later.
The anger is completely normal.
Just do your best to remember the good times and cherish the time you got to spend together.
Hang in there.
I like you guys from Texas. When the pandemic kills everyone but me in NJ maybe I'll move out to Texas.

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:15 pm
by HighNDry
FreakShowFanatic wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:13 pm I like you guys from Texas. When the pandemic kills everyone but me in NJ maybe I'll move out to Texas.
I bet their fingers are hurting from being crossed so tight.

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:18 pm
by CaptQuint
Texas executes retards

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:22 pm
by HighNDry
CaptQuint wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:18 pm Texas executes (almost all) retards
Fixed that. I mean, we have to account for WTC.

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:24 pm
by WestTexasCrude
DiverTexas wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 3:46 pm
WestTexasCrude wrote: Mon Mar 23, 2020 8:56 pm
DiverTexas wrote: Mon Mar 23, 2020 12:26 pm Sincerest condolences.
Sorry for your loss.
Thanks DT. That's special coming from you after the way I treated you the last week or 2. I apologize. Seems I've been "mad at the World" forever.
No problem, completely understood.
I lost Mom a few years ago and then lost Dad 44 days later.
The anger is completely normal.
Just do your best to remember the good times and cherish the time you got to spend together.
Hang in there.
2 parents/ 2 funerals in 44 days/ Holy Uggh- can't even imagine the emotional gut punch that entails. Holy shit

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:26 pm
by Animal
CaptQuint wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:18 pm Texas executes retards
first we take them on a snipe hunt.

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:28 pm
by HighNDry
Flumper wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:26 pm
CaptQuint wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:18 pm Texas executes retards
first we take them on a snipe hunt.
What happens to the winners?

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:28 pm
by CaptQuint
HighNDry wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:28 pm
Flumper wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:26 pm
CaptQuint wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:18 pm Texas executes retards
first we take them on a snipe hunt.
What happens to the winners?
They make em Governor

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:30 pm
by HighNDry
CaptQuint wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:28 pm
HighNDry wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:28 pm
Flumper wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:26 pm
CaptQuint wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:18 pm Texas executes retards
first we take them on a snipe hunt.
What happens to the winners?
They make em Governor
LOL

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:31 pm
by Animal
CaptQuint wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:28 pm
HighNDry wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:28 pm
Flumper wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:26 pm
CaptQuint wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:18 pm Texas executes retards
first we take them on a snipe hunt.
What happens to the winners?
They make em Governor
oh. so you're down to making fun of guys in wheel chairs?

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:33 pm
by CaptQuint
Flumper wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:31 pm
CaptQuint wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:28 pm
HighNDry wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:28 pm
Flumper wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:26 pm
CaptQuint wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:18 pm Texas executes retards
first we take them on a snipe hunt.
What happens to the winners?
They make em Governor
oh. so you're down to making fun of guys in wheel chairs?

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2020 11:29 pm
by WestTexasCrude
CaptQuint wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:18 pm Texas executes retards
So, has Texas sent you the brochure about moving down here yet? Our execution chambers are kinda empty. You seem a perfect candidate.

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2020 11:30 pm
by CaptQuint
WestTexasCrude wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 11:29 pm
CaptQuint wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:18 pm Texas executes retards
So, has Texas sent you the brochure about moving down here yet? Our execution chambers are kinda empty.
Stay down dummy

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2020 11:53 pm
by WestTexasCrude
CaptQuint wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 11:30 pm
WestTexasCrude wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 11:29 pm
CaptQuint wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:18 pm Texas executes retards
So, has Texas sent you the brochure about moving down here yet? Our execution chambers are kinda empty.
Stay down dummy
I don't even know what this means. You do realize in your masturbation world, instead of random instantaneous replies seconds later. maybe a better strategy is to absorb what you see, spend a couple of minutes contemplating your response and then send. It would save everybody around here tons of your BS. Thanks.

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2020 11:56 pm
by CaptQuint
WestTexasCrude wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 11:53 pm
CaptQuint wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 11:30 pm
WestTexasCrude wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 11:29 pm
CaptQuint wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:18 pm Texas executes retards
So, has Texas sent you the brochure about moving down here yet? Our execution chambers are kinda empty.
Stay down dummy
I don't even know what this means. You do realize in your masturbation world, instead of random instantaneous replies seconds later. maybe a better strategy is to absorb what you see, spend a couple of minutes contemplating your response and then send. It would save everybody around here tons of your BS. Thanks.
Well I want you to see my response since you only spend a couple of hours on UJ a month.

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Wed Mar 25, 2020 12:03 am
by Whackov
Reservoir Dog wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 1:29 pm
WestTexasCrude wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 1:06 am
Whackov wrote: Mon Mar 23, 2020 12:54 pm Sorry for your loss.

I lost my father, my mother and a sister in less than a year’s period. I completely understand you not wanting to see the body. It is better to remember them for what they were instead of what they look like after death.
Thanks Whackov. Back in my 20's, was at my Grandmother's funeral (Mom side) and they just lifted the casket and showed her body. Tore me up. I just don't understand the point.It's my Sister, Brother and me. I was voted down about having an open casket for my Dad. I will just walk away when it happens. No problem. They say they want the grandkids and great grandkids to see him for the last time. I'm kinda guessing that group doesn't want to see a dead body and the parents are clueless. The whole open casket thing is a relic from before refrigeration when you paid a funeral director tons of money to make the body presentable (embalming) . It was like a show of his talent. Like PeteRoseHaircut said. That grave is not where my Dad is. It's in my memory.
Attending an open casket funeral can be an important life lesson for children and grandchildren. It also helps people obtain a sense of closure.
I watched my dad die and my sister die. My mom went fast. They were all open casket. For my dad, we put an airline size bottle of Jack, one of his favorite cigars and a pack of Camel non-filter in his suit coat. It was a military funeral and we forgot to tell the honor guard two things: 1) that we had put the liquor in pocket and 2) that he had both legs amputated above the knees. They went to lift the casket expecting a normal weight distribution but the casket was very top heavy. The bottle of Jack Daniels went bouncing around the casket. Numerous family members were not pleased with us.

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Wed Mar 25, 2020 12:04 am
by WestTexasCrude
CaptQuint wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 11:56 pm
WestTexasCrude wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 11:53 pm
CaptQuint wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 11:30 pm
WestTexasCrude wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 11:29 pm
CaptQuint wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:18 pm Texas executes retards
So, has Texas sent you the brochure about moving down here yet? Our execution chambers are kinda empty.
Stay down dummy
I don't even know what this means. You do realize in your masturbation world, instead of random instantaneous replies seconds later. maybe a better strategy is to absorb what you see, spend a couple of minutes contemplating your response and then send. It would save everybody around here tons of your BS. Thanks.
Well I want you to see my response since you only spend a couple of hours on UJ a month.
Sends reply less than 2 minutes later. Has no fucking clue.

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Wed Mar 25, 2020 12:11 am
by CaptQuint
WestTexasCrude wrote: Wed Mar 25, 2020 12:04 am
CaptQuint wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 11:56 pm
WestTexasCrude wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 11:53 pm
CaptQuint wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 11:30 pm
WestTexasCrude wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 11:29 pm
CaptQuint wrote: Tue Mar 24, 2020 8:18 pm Texas executes retards
So, has Texas sent you the brochure about moving down here yet? Our execution chambers are kinda empty.
Stay down dummy
I don't even know what this means. You do realize in your masturbation world, instead of random instantaneous replies seconds later. maybe a better strategy is to absorb what you see, spend a couple of minutes contemplating your response and then send. It would save everybody around here tons of your BS. Thanks.
Well I want you to see my response since you only spend a couple of hours on UJ a month.
Sends reply less than 2 minutes later. Has no fucking clue.
OMG It's like you're the only tard that cares about response times :D