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Life's tough decisions

Posted: Fri Mar 20, 2020 1:23 am
by WestTexasCrude
So my dad the last couple of days has been complaining about pain/ discomfort similar to acid reflux in the middle chest. Pain down through his shoulders, etc. Pounded him for days to get to the hospital. Finally did today. He was on on medivac helicopter within the hour going to San Angelo. Heart attack symptoms

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Fri Mar 20, 2020 1:33 am
by HighNDry
WestTexasCrude wrote: Fri Mar 20, 2020 1:23 am So my dad the last couple of days has been complaining about pain/ discomfort similar to acid reflux in the middle chest. Pain down through his shoulders, etc. Pounded him for days to get to the hospital. Finally did today. He was on on medivac helicopter within the hour going to San Angelo. Heart attack symptoms
Yikes. Hope everything works out okay.

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Fri Mar 20, 2020 1:36 am
by megman
So why aren't you in San Angelo?

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Fri Mar 20, 2020 1:38 am
by Stapes
Days? WTF is wrong with you

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Fri Mar 20, 2020 1:39 am
by WestTexasCrude
Biker wrote: Fri Mar 20, 2020 1:25 am Oh geez. Artery blockage?
Yes, and my sister after going through her passed diabetic husbands heart problems for years knows the score.

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Fri Mar 20, 2020 1:41 am
by FSchmertz
After all that time with symptoms, it's a miracle he woke up today.

Hope it all works out, his luck has held out so far! :fingerscrossed:

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Fri Mar 20, 2020 1:48 am
by WestTexasCrude
megman wrote: Fri Mar 20, 2020 1:36 am So why aren't you in San Angelo?
I have an older sister and younger brother. We all have no option to go there. No visitors are allowed there due to the CV BS. All hospitals are locked down like prisons. My Dad is going through this without me beside him and I'm pissed beyond recognition.

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Fri Mar 20, 2020 1:53 am
by FreakShowFanatic
Hope your father gets well soon WTC. Keep up the good work taking good care of him.

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Fri Mar 20, 2020 2:19 am
by Antknot
Damn. Are you at least able to keep in touch by phone?

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Fri Mar 20, 2020 2:24 am
by WestTexasCrude
Biker wrote: Fri Mar 20, 2020 1:51 am
WestTexasCrude wrote: Fri Mar 20, 2020 1:39 am
Biker wrote: Fri Mar 20, 2020 1:25 am Oh geez. Artery blockage?
Yes, and my sister after going through her passed diabetic husbands heart problems for years knows the score.
That sucks. Hang in there, WTC. Prayers to your pops
He's actually fine. Talked to him an hour ago about about bringing him clean clothes, his Kindle etc Saturday. That is not the actual issue.I'm tired and need to go to work tomorrow. The issue is stenting the major heart problems vs Opening (rib spreading) an entire cavity of a 85 year old man. I'm pretty sure I know what the doctors and insurance people want to do.Thus the "Life's tough decisions".

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Fri Mar 20, 2020 2:39 am
by WestTexasCrude
FreakShowFanatic wrote: Fri Mar 20, 2020 1:53 am Hope your father gets well soon WTC. Keep up the good work taking good care of him.
Thanks, fsf

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Fri Mar 20, 2020 2:49 am
by nerd_alert
WestTexasCrude wrote: Fri Mar 20, 2020 2:24 am
Biker wrote: Fri Mar 20, 2020 1:51 am
WestTexasCrude wrote: Fri Mar 20, 2020 1:39 am
Biker wrote: Fri Mar 20, 2020 1:25 am Oh geez. Artery blockage?
Yes, and my sister after going through her passed diabetic husbands heart problems for years knows the score.
That sucks. Hang in there, WTC. Prayers to your pops
He's actually fine. Talked to him an hour ago about about bringing him clean clothes, his Kindle etc Saturday. That is not the actual issue.I'm tired and need to go to work tomorrow. The issue is stenting the major heart problems vs Opening (rib spreading) an entire cavity of a 85 year old man. I'm pretty sure I know what the doctors and insurance people want to do.Thus the "Life's tough decisions".
I would think stents would be much easier on him than cracking open ribs. My dad had a triple bypass at 76 and it was a very slow recovery. He was less than enthusiastic about doing the rehab stuff.

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Fri Mar 20, 2020 1:40 pm
by Antknot
WestTexasCrude wrote: Fri Mar 20, 2020 2:24 am
Biker wrote: Fri Mar 20, 2020 1:51 am
WestTexasCrude wrote: Fri Mar 20, 2020 1:39 am
Biker wrote: Fri Mar 20, 2020 1:25 am Oh geez. Artery blockage?
Yes, and my sister after going through her passed diabetic husbands heart problems for years knows the score.
That sucks. Hang in there, WTC. Prayers to your pops
He's actually fine. Talked to him an hour ago about about bringing him clean clothes, his Kindle etc Saturday. That is not the actual issue.I'm tired and need to go to work tomorrow. The issue is stenting the major heart problems vs Opening (rib spreading) an entire cavity of a 85 year old man. I'm pretty sure I know what the doctors and insurance people want to do.Thus the "Life's tough decisions".
If a stent is a viable option that is what you want. Way less recovery time than having the chest cracked.

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Fri Mar 20, 2020 8:15 pm
by WestTexasCrude
All of us talked to Dad this morning- sounded great. Everything went downhill in just the last 3-4 hours. Found unconscious in his room. Rushed to ICU. Diagnosed bleeding heart valve (doctors discussing survivor rate of 50% or less). Frantically worked and got him stabilized. Emergency air transport to Dallas. Just landed at Baylor Heart hospital in Plano and being rushed into immediate surgery. Waiting for the bad/ good news call. How was your day? And thanks for everybody's thoughts.

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Fri Mar 20, 2020 8:19 pm
by nerd_alert
WestTexasCrude wrote: Fri Mar 20, 2020 8:15 pm All of us talked to Dad this morning- sounded great. Everything went downhill in just the last 3-4 hours. Found unconscious in his room. Rushed to ICU. Diagnosed bleeding heart valve (doctors discussing survivor rate of 50% or less). Frantically worked and got him stabilized. Emergency air transport to Dallas. Just landed at Baylor Heart hospital in Plano and being rushed into immediate surgery. Waiting for the bad/ good news call. How was your day? And thanks for everybody's thoughts.
Best wishes for your father and hope your family is hanging in there. I know this is highly stressful.

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Fri Mar 20, 2020 9:09 pm
by FreakShowFanatic
Best wishes. Sorry things took a turn for the worse but it sounds like they're doing everything in their power to help your Dad out. Hopefully that works out.

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Fri Mar 20, 2020 9:16 pm
by HighNDry
WestTexasCrude wrote: Fri Mar 20, 2020 8:15 pm All of us talked to Dad this morning- sounded great. Everything went downhill in just the last 3-4 hours. Found unconscious in his room. Rushed to ICU. Diagnosed bleeding heart valve (doctors discussing survivor rate of 50% or less). Frantically worked and got him stabilized. Emergency air transport to Dallas. Just landed at Baylor Heart hospital in Plano and being rushed into immediate surgery. Waiting for the bad/ good news call. How was your day? And thanks for everybody's thoughts.
Holy shit. That’s horrible. Sorry to hear that. Praying for him to pull through.

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Fri Mar 20, 2020 10:22 pm
by WestTexasCrude
Thanks everybody. Just got the call- "bad"- imminent death within a couple of hours. Resting peacefully. Just got back from losing my shit out in the country by myself.

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Fri Mar 20, 2020 10:35 pm
by WestTexasCrude
And Boom- dead 32 hours after he reported his problems at the local hospital.

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Fri Mar 20, 2020 10:35 pm
by FreakShowFanatic
WestTexasCrude wrote: Fri Mar 20, 2020 10:22 pm Thanks everybody. Just got the call- "bad"- imminent death within a couple of hours. Resting peacefully. Just got back from losing my shit out in the country by myself.
So sorry to hear the bad news WTC. Try to be strong and keep you & your family safe.

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Fri Mar 20, 2020 10:46 pm
by Blast
WestTexasCrude wrote: Fri Mar 20, 2020 10:35 pm And Boom- dead 32 hours after he reported his problems at the local hospital.
Shit. I'm sorry WTC. I know what you're going through and it ain't gonna be easy.

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Fri Mar 20, 2020 10:47 pm
by megman
Condolences

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Fri Mar 20, 2020 11:03 pm
by Wut
Sorry to hear it, WTC, I've been there and I know how tough it is.

In a past thread about someone passing, someone suggested that a little history be shared, so when you feel up to it, tell us a little about your dad.

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Fri Mar 20, 2020 11:22 pm
by nerd_alert
Wow, that was quick. Be thankful he didn't just linger and suffer.

Hoping you & your family can find some comfort.

Go next door and ask the blonde for some sympathy sex.

Re: Life's tough decisions

Posted: Fri Mar 20, 2020 11:39 pm
by Burn1dwn
Condolences. Hope he suffered as little as possible.