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My partner, my boyfriend, my husband whatever I called him at the moment- I never called this man A Bad Name. Never ever. We weren't one of those couples to complain about each other to our friends because there wasn't anything to complain about. He died on Thursday. Everyone is absolutely gutted and devastated it was so sudden he collapsed and stopped breathing. He died in my arms he died in our house right in front of me and it feels like some disgusting surreal gross dream that I cannot escape.

You guys would have loved him! He was a dude's dude he wasn't one for the internet so he didn't have a social media presence if you will LOL he absolutely loved what I would read funny stuff from you guys or funny stuff that you would say. He loved that I would receive gifts from around the world, we would listen to music in the what are you listening to thread he knew all about this place. He was never threatened or upset. He knew the attention I received from this helped me get over my divorce a long time ago and it never bothered him he was so good. He was such a good man he was such a good man and it's just disgusting that he's gone he was so young.

I know this is rambling I can't type at the moment so this is voice to text I lost a lot of friends when I quit drinking and then with retarded immature emotions and whatnot I've had drama with this place I never intended it out right, you know I am a real person with a real feelings this place is always been kind of a corner of the internet where I could come and laugh. I don't know what else to say.

Fuck.
Sorry for your loss, Disco, that really sucks.

Wow. Sometimes life comes at you hard and fast. Best wishes...

thank you guys. he was so awesome. he ordered a transmission from Japan for his 2009 Toyota Corolla and put it in himself last fall. and Just last Sunday he got new wheels and tires for it - is a beater that he drives back and forth to Jersey City for work. He called it the "Corolls Royce". There's tools and wrenches and hole saws, and man stuff down there.... like projects he was in the middle of. fucking sucks.

Damn.

I'm so very sorry that this happened to you kiddo, losing someone close is never easy.

I have no words. I hope you find the strength you need. I'm sorry.

Shit, I'm so sorry to hear that Disco. It that you were there with him is a curse and a blessing.

I wish I could think of something to say to help but I'm sure I can't.
*giant internet hug*

That is terrible news. I'm glad you came here to share it and I hope you hang around a while. He sounds like a great guy.

I am so sorry, I sure hope there are folks near you that can help or comfort or just listen. Hang in there.

I've always assumed every wife/GF/partner has some set of choice words to describe their significant other. My mother had a short but accurate list on dad, my daughter-in-law is developing a decent start of such a list on my son, and my wife possesses a detailed mental notebook of my not so minor foibilities. That you don't/didn't is truly a testament to the quality of man you selected to complete your life, as I'm sure you completed his. I'm so very sorry you've lost him.

Despite the asshole nature of this board, we collectively are here for you in whatever way we can.

fuck. i am sorry to hear that. hope you are ok.

Oh geez, thats awful. I'm so sorry for your loss

"Corolls royce" is as funny as anything I've ever heard! Comedy is the only way I deal with grief so I hope it can work for you too, that dude was obviously hilarious af. After the pain, just laugh, even if it is behind tears. Especially every time you see a Toyota corolla!

That's terrible news. Sorry for your loss

Im so sorry. To keep in tradition, I'll take his record player. But seriously, I hope youre ok. Talk if you need me.

That's terrible.

Sorry for your loss Disco!

I feel your pain. Feel free to PM me.

thank youguys.

necronomous wrote: ↑Tue Mar 31, 2026 3:52 am Im so sorry. To keep in tradition, I'll take his record player. But seriously, I hope youre ok. Talk if you need me.

he knew this joke. I'm keeping it though! it was his dads from the 70s and its legit still in box